All the singles ladies

Went on a mini vacay to Pennsylvania for my alma mater's homecoming and got dumped when I got back! I'm not gonna waste too much of a post on this nonsense. But I will say that I feel like I was strung along for a week. Being that, we had a conversation a few days before my trip that implied the ending of our relationship. So I went on my trip, BEHAVED, and came home just to be dumped. My ex claims he didn't want to ruin my trip by dumping me beforehand. I find that to be BULLSHIT. 

I guess I understand his reasoning for ending it. Apparently I'm too emotional, aka too much to handle. So here I am, a week later, still angry. 

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But on a good note, he had A LOT of things coming up that I was not in favor of. We were bound to break up sooner or later. I just believed that WE could work. However, he was not willing to put in as much effort as I was. 

If I Had A Million Dollars

So today's horoscope said to write a list of what I would do if I unexpectedly won a large sum of money. My blog seems like the perfect place to do that.

1. Pay off all my debts.
2. Since my car is officially paid off, pimp my ride:
    -Buy new hub caps and rims for my car.
    -Buy a new radio system for my car.
    -Tint my windows.
3. Take a class for LSATS.
4. Go to law school.
5. Move into a nicer apartment.
6. Buy the iPhone 6
7. Get a personal trainer. 

I'm not materialistic so that's all I can think of at the moment.

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Don't worry, be happy

Finally talked to my MIA boyfriend. Apparently he's been phoneless and was never ignoring me. In fact, he was wondering why I didn't come over this past weekend like I intended. I explained that it was because I hadn't heard from him. (As a girl, I like to confirm things multiple times.)

Yes, it took 4 days for him to remember he had my emails. But all that matters is that he contacted me. COMMUNICATION = the key to any successful relationship. And we actually had a long talk about everything that's been bothering me. Guess we're still in the honeymoon phase.

Funny how things work out.

Positive thinking brings positive results. All my readers should watch "The Secret" documentary on Netflix ASAP. It'll change your life!

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End of the Honeymoon

How do couples keep the spark when the honeymoon period is over?

My relationship is officially out of the honeymoon phase. We've been together about 3 months and everything seems like it's falling apart. Of course it's not, but we seem to disagree on more things that usual. I want to go out more, he doesn't. No reason to be discouraged though. It might just mean that each person needs some space.

Or maybe it means some things need to be re-evaluated? My man claims to be saving money yet he continues to spend it frivolously. Yet, he seems to be "too broke" to take me out. Sounds a bit selfish to me. No, I'm not trying to control his money either. All I'm saying is that I would like to go out to eat every now and then. When I expressed my feelings about this matter, he went MIA. I know what my faithful readers are thinking-NOT AGAIN. I doubt that he's disappeared, but clearly he doesn't want to talk about it. Well I have something in store for him whenever he decides he wants to communicate again. Just wait for it. 

I rather not get into it too much though. Apparently I tend to blab my business. I just consider it "sharing." 

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Long time no speak

So I just randomly got the urge to blog, which is why I'm here. I didn't check to see how long it's been, but at least a few months?

Not much going on, I'm jamming out to some old school R&B. Jodeci radio on Pandora is AWESOME, if you love 90s R&B. And if you like that, here's a few others.

Kem radio
Maxwell radio
Luther Vandross radio
Bobby Womack radio (really old R&B)

Congrats Kim and Kanye!

I'm so happy for Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. There wedding looks like it was nothing short of magical. Getting married in Italy is a dream.

Surprisingly, Kim's dress wasn't as revealing as I thought it would be. She worked so hard to get that body back so I thought she was going to expose more. She still looked absolutely stunning though.

Welcome to the family Kanye West!!

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Loved that dress she wore to her wedding party though.

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Kimye wedding this week?

Shout out to mediatakeout for that article on Kimye possibly getting married in Cali this week. 

Honestly that wouldn't surprise me because Kim has been losing A LOT of weight at a fast pace. I couldn't figure out why because it's not she's been doing a lot of media related things. But a potential wedding this week? That's more than enough reason for my sis to get her body right.

If the wedding is this week, I cannot wait to see her dress! Loved their pictures in Vogue, btw.

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Wine and Me

I've come to realize that I have a very strange relationship with wine.

First of all, I don't consider myself an alcoholic because I do not need to drink every day or even every week. Now don't get me wrong, I like alcohol, but I just don't need the unnecessary calories. Now that I'm in the process of toning up, paying off debts, and saving, I find more reasons to not spend money on it.

However, every now and then (like last night) I get the urge to have a drink. Typically, I'll just buy a cheap bottle of wine and make it last for two weeks. Mainly because, I tend to delay opening it. 

In addition, there are times when I want to buy a bottle of wine, yet I don't because I know I shouldn't be spending the money. So I'll just go to the store, walk up and down the wine aisle, read some descriptions, then make note of wines that I should buy when I have the extra money. 

Interesting relationship right?

On a side note, I've been on a Merlot kick lately...

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Love, Actually?

I have this app on my phone, AllWomensTalk (don't judge me), and it's like the best thing I ever downloaded. It talks about celebs, beauty, fashion, love, lifestyle, wellness and soo many other topics. They even email me weekly suggestions of articles to read.

The articles come in the form of "7 Ways to Train Your Brain" and "7 Reasons to Move Away From College. Those are actually real articles since I couldn't find a way to describe its format. Feel free to look them up.

Today, I came across an article titled, "17 Signs He is in Love With You." As much as I didn't want to get sucked into it, I did - which tends to happen with this app. The whole thing with just hysterical. Some of the signs included things like ,"He enjoys cuddling with you. He is constantly keeping up eye contact. He wants to spend every moment with you." All I could think about was blah blah blah lol. 

Isn't every relationship different? Are there some guys out there who enjoy cuddling in general? Does it necessarily mean they're in love? Overall, kudos to the app for once again sucking me in and making me BELIEVE.

Don't get me wrong, I love the app, it has interesting articles. However I must pay attention to the validity of the content. 

Drake and Rihanna

All I'm going to see about this is DUH. Drake is a Scorpio and Rihanna is a Pisces. That is a perfect match. They were bound to get together eventually. And they are going to continue to be on/off because that it the pattern of a Scorpio-Pisces relationship. Rihanna is my sis though and if she's happy, I'm happy. As much as I loved her with Chris Brown, she deserves better. As a Pisces currently dealing with a Taurus, I completely understand the complications of their relationship.

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